If you’ve been in a job search for more than
a few months, you already know that one of the greatest challenges
is maintaining a positive attitude. Without it, going through
the motions can feel as demotivating as running a race in lead
boots. You begin to think “What’s the use? I’ve
already sent out 50 resumes this week with nothing to show for
it.”
If you find yourself in an emotional slump, here are three things
you can do to regain a positive, optimistic outlook:
1. Write out a job-search action
plan including these four areas:
* Search and respond intelligently to online and print job openings. To
optimize your results take the time to customize your cover letters
to each opportunity.
* Research potential employers to contact proactively in search
of not-yet-posted job leads. Make sure your research includes
contact names of key executive within the organizations. Again,
customize your cover letters to illustrate your interest in their
company and/or industry.
* Contact members of your personal network of friends, former
colleagues and professional association members to let them know
of your search. Continually build your network through new
professional associations, job fairs, trade shows and business
networking events. Involve yourself with others who will
tell you of job leads in the “hidden” job market.
* Invest in an online resume distribution service that allows
you to target your resume to employers and recruiters most likely
interested in your qualifications. You’ll see quick
results, allowing you to jumpstart your interview activity level.
Once you have your action plan, schedule these activities just
as you would if employed on the job. Plan your work
and work your plan.
2. Choose an accountability partner
and support group.
These are essential to keep
you motivated and on track with your action plan and schedule. An
accountability partner helps you reach your activity goals. A live
support group (vs. online chat group) keeps you actively involved
with others who understand your situation and can lend emotional
support. Caution: avoid negative groups of job seekers who
will drag you down by their pessimistic outlook.
3. Allow yourself to enjoy simple pleasures.
Spend an evening with a great book. Take a walk on a sunny
afternoon. Play football with your son. Meet a friend
at a coffee shop for a long chat. Often job seekers think
they don’t deserve any fun until they’ve found a job. The
truth is there is more time for simple pleasures while unemployed
than any other time in life. Once you’ve put your
job-search action plan into practice and you’ve spent your
time wisely in productive activities, reward yourself a little. You
deserve it!
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